A child does not dislike their mother because of her looks, nor does a dog dislike their owner because of their poverty. Beauty is accepted and welcomed by all people. However, physical appearances do not hinder the affection that children bear towards their mothers. Rather, affection is derived from the sincerity and heart that children, in turn, receive from their parents. Thus, it is the conclusion that nothing stands between the love between mother and child, child and mother.

If a child were to despise their mother because of her outward features, then this is both the result of a lack of motherly love and the wrongful regard of parents as decorative objects. Overall, this is the effect of an improper upbringing and/or the skewing of wisdom originally taught by the parents.

Even dogs recognize and remain loyal to their owners and do not turn their disloyalty for reasons of poverty

                                                                     Christms Ev Service (Sonhi and Cherish)

                                                                             Farwell lunch

 

Promotion ceremony pinning (farewell)

It is common for an individual to change after being promoted to a higher status. When people question this individual's change, they respond by either faulting their peers, environment and the world. This leads to a further reaffirmation in the individual's negative transformation. Peers, the environment and world are not to blame for an increase in one's pride, only the individual themselves. Then, what lies in the core of change?

In truth, is it not the surfacing of one's deepest desires that conquers their thoughts and actions? In this case, change is clearly apparent, because humbleness prevented the over-ruling of selfish ambitions. Therefore, even with success and advancements, one should never forget their gentle and courteous ways.

Change is inevitable. However, there are two forms of change: those induced by others and those self-induced. The change we must fight against are changes meant for other's preferences.

So, how can we differentiate between rightful, needed changes? This question can only be answered by your own self. Do not be afraid to answer this question, because everyone retains the clarity to pave their own path.

 

 

 

 

 

Friday 12 December 2014 (Snow Day) - Come rain or snow I will be at Hapkido class -- awesome training day.

This picture was taken in 1970.  The student in this picture is currently a 5th Dan, and is an instructor.

At the bottom of the sign in this picture is evidence that this dojo joined the Korean Government Education Center program in 1970.  This program made each dojo have certain requirements, such as a changing room, office, and washroom, as well as determining the minimum sizes for each room of the dojo.  It also ensured that the instructors had background checks and were only allowed to register if they had a clean criminal record.  This was optional for all entities providing education.  Before this time, each dojo was allowed to teach without certification.  When a new president came into office, the program was made mandatory, otherwise fines were issued.

The inscription at the bottom roughly translates to "Pyongtaek Education Center License Number 39."

 

Though the water of creeks trickle as they flow, the world ocean ripples soundlessly. There is a saying that states: there lies fire within self-pride, and damaging rust at self-glorification. Having an exaggerated confidence in one's self leads to negative attention from their surrounding peers, which then leads to unnecessary, angry conflicts. These narcissistic individuals are rarely regarded as beautiful. So when does this ironically self-deprecating act occur?

Arrogance occurs when one revolves their life around their achievements. In this way, success has dual effects: it can raise an individual while also, becoming the source of their downfall. Modern people advise to place aside personal achievements. By placing themselves on a pedestal, people draw criticism, enemies and become a target for elimination.

To achieve success but not dwell in it. To achieve success and not exalt it. These are the ways success should be regarded.

Nature may have been the mother of all the living and breathing, but she does not overbear her glory. It may become lonely at times to not acclaim one's triumphs. However, without acclaim, one will forever be with peace and satisfaction in heart. Compared to the tribulations brought by the pompous, the joys brought by the humble are as beautiful as the fall sunset.

To live a beautiful life, we must walk a beautiful path.

This is Brian (Brown Belt) attacking Jacob (Blue Belt).  Jacob defends with Four Corner Throw, Wrist Turn-Out, and Hip Throw basic techniques.  Hapkido training involves two people taking turns attacking and then defending.  One time you get thrown, and the next time you get to throw!  We always enjoy both throwing and being thrown.